Saturday, April 17, 2010

So confused about this girl in my college wtf?? plz help?

Well, there's this girl named Melissa who i met on facebook and she's like a week new in my college. Anyways, we started messaging back and forth, and she said hi to me when she saw me in class b/c she recognized me from our messages...anyways...her messages to me were kind of bland, she didn't initiate conversation online, nor did she ask me many questions back. My first question: Why would she go out of her way to say hi to me in person, and not on facebook? Now, i read this conversation between her and another person in my grade...i know its snooping...This guy asked her to hang out (they've never hung out beofre) and she said "sure...this is random but do you know (my name) because he keeps calling me and I don't really know who he is." Now let me set this straight, I asked for her number on facebook so we could chill sometime, and she gave it to me. I called her ONCE, and told her i would like to get to know her. Why would she tell this guy I keep calling her? I don't get it!!!

So confused about this girl in my college wtf?? plz help?
Maybe she's just not comfortable with starting conversations online or on the phone with people she doesn't really know. after all what do parents all tell us about not talking to strangers and the like? It takes some getting used to that in college everybody is a stranger and you have to take the initiative sometimes to get to know people. In my opinion she was fishing for info about you in case that guy was a friend of yours. She just wanted some background. It's a good sign that she's thinking about you and not just blowing you off or something. Try sitting near her in class and start talking about class, the football team, whatever--just make small talk and take it from there. (take a look at my question if you can!)
Reply:dam that is confusing......something like that happened to me too with a guy i knew and it was really annoying but anyways.....girls like to exaggerate things like that to make the situation bigger than it really is ....to answer yourfirst question....maybe she wanted to say hi to you in person because she'd rather talk to you in person than online...but she seems like someone who doesn't really know what she wants because of what shes saying and how she's acting towards you....i think that you could find someone much better and more mature than that...hope you clear up your situation
Reply:She's probally into the other guy and wants him too see that other men are interested in her. She kind of seems like a snob to me you shouldn't waste your time on her.
Reply:Drop that crap dude. Too much P---y in college to play that game.

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