Saturday, April 17, 2010

Creepy to add a girl on Facebook after just meeting her???

I'm a 22 year old college student and on the second day of classes, I met a very attractive girl. We actually have more than 1 class together so we didn't meet right away.





She finally introduced herself to me today and I introduced myself to her of course.





I'm confused if I should do anything now or what. I'm thinking about adding her on facebook because I know her first name and I can just look her last name up on the class roster. But I'm afraid it might look creepy.





What should I do?





If you were a girl in this situation and a guy from a class that you weren't particularily interested in sent you a message over facebook or myspace, would you think it was creepy or would you not think too much of it.

Creepy to add a girl on Facebook after just meeting her???
I would wait and talk to her a bit more in class first, then add her on facebook after that.
Reply:No, I wouldn't think it was creepy (especially if he's cute) but I probably would suspect he has a bit of interest in me. Considering you barely know her, it might give you away. But then again, there are lots of people who will friend anyone they recognize or have made eye contact with before.





Why don't you get to know her a little better, talk to her casually in class. Wait till you've had a few more conversations and then it will seem less weird if you add her as a friend. Don't rely on facebook to get to know her or ask her out. If you talk to her more and get to know her personally, you won't have to worry about looking weird by adding her AND you can get a feel as to whether she's interested or not.
Reply:It's good you are considering that it might be creepy. That tells me, it's NOT creepy. If you thought it was fine and you were just moving forward with it, it'd be weird. Maybe just say "Hey add me to your Facebook" and let HER add YOU. Then it's all fine.
Reply:id do it, if she asks why just say ur in my class so i wanted to add you, i did it to all my new friends, dosent really say anything
Reply:thats not creepy at all
Reply:Send her a poke.
Reply:wait to add her until you have seen and talked to her once or twice more. then that away youll be sure that wasnt just a once time thing.
Reply:maybe you shouldn't do it yet. get to know her for a bit then you can ask her for her permission i guess to add her or something. or maybe you can casually slip it in about wanting to add her or something. just don't do it now, wait a little bit longer
Reply:I would be flattered if I were her.
Reply:She might find that a little bit creepy. Talk to her some more and get to know her better. If you just suddenly add her she might wonder, "Did he go on Facebook and look just to see if I had one?" That seems like a stalker. One day while you two are talking casually ask, "Hey, do you have a Facebook/Myspace?" If she says yes say, "Cool, would it be okay if I added you as one of my friends?"





I wouldn't just go and look her up on Facebook.
Reply:probably should become a better friend in real life first. Use facebook to stay connected not to connect..
Reply:it's only facebook. go for it


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