College students or older, please! I need advice.?

My guy-friend told me about his single friend who was coming to our college as a freshman, so I added him on facebook (online community for students). My guy-friend told the freshman that I was interested in him,and the freshman was flirting with me online and txting me asking me to hang out.I was busy for the first couple weeks of school so I couldn't,but then he invited me to a party. I went with 3 of my guy-friends and then the freshman txted me after the party, but for the next couple days, there was dead silence. My guy-friend told me that the freshman was turned off by the guys I brought to the party. Anyway, we hung out alone and made out. He told me to call him but I wanted to see if he would call me first. He contacted me through AIM a couple days later. Now all we do is talk on aim, very rarely, and he only wants to hang out if I ask him first. wth could've happened? I don't know why, but I really like this guy even though he's a freshman and I'm a junior. What should I do?

College students or older, please! I need advice.?
Honestly, as a collegiate for the past 7 years, I think that you need to let the dude go. He's 18 and wants to experience college life. Talk to him over aim and let him talk to you when he wants to. Meanwhile, you need to put yourself out there. There are a lot of boys out there that I'm sure would love to meet you.
Reply:Well he must have taken you coming into the pary with the 3 other guys (even though they were friends) as a turn off.. He may have felt like he wasn't special or that you "get around." It seems as though he is not interested anymore..Guys are complicated with these things..Talking on AIM isn't really saying much because you can talk to anyone on AIM but if you are communicating through texts or talking on the phone, that is more like "I'm interested." I know for me it is hard when things like this happen because I just want to make it work. The fact that he's a freshman could mean that he is immature (because you know how most guys mature much later), but I just don't think this is meant to be..It's hard to know exactly what this guy is thinking but I would say just move on. Good luck


Hope I helped !
Reply:From the sounds of it, he probably thinks that you aren't really interested... or he's trying not to seem too needy. If youw ant to see him, you should call him up and see if he wants to hang out.


If he's receptive, than great! That means that the above is probably true.


If he's not, he probably either isn't interested or doesn't want to start something too serious or some guy thing like that.
Reply:1. He's a guy. Most of us, enjoy flirting and making the other person go nuts (Women do that too, so its nothing new)


2. There's the 48 hour rule:- It's pathetic, but most of us follow it. We don't call back for 48 hours or more, after we get a womans number


3. It seems that


a. He feels you may not be interested in him (low probability)


b. He was just toying with your emotions and now, is bored (from your description of him high probability.)





Hey, you did nothing wrong and, some guys are like that, and on all guys behalf, my apologies. We're not all like that.. so, don't worry too much about that...
Reply:Hes just not that into you. Move on.
Reply:It could be he's a little intimidated that you're older than he is, or maybe he was just a bit hurt or made a little insecure with himself to see you show up with other, older male friends, when he invited you. I know guys that age aren't usually 100% comfortable with discussing their feelings (ESPECIALLY when they're not even in a technical relationship), just ask him as innocently as possible if it had upset him/ how it made him feel that you showed up with other guys, and explain that they are totally platonic friends, and let him know you'd like to get to know him better.