Why does she keep messaging me on Facebook?

This girl I knew in college that I once asked out keeps messaging me on Facebook. When I asked her out a while back, she stood up the date and left me with her roommates. I was disappointed! Now, she messages me on Facebook four times and said this time that it is like I crawled under a rock. I never returned her messages after that night. Why might she keep messaging me??

Why does she keep messaging me on Facebook?
I've noticed this sort of thing on Facebook too - maybe not this extreme though.





Basically, people almost consider their friend counts to be unspoken competitions. It is really easy to see how many friends your friends have, and you can sleep easy with the thought that you have more! On top of that, the internet makes it really easy to say things that you wouldn't say in reality and convince yourself that what you are saying might be true. It seems like this girl is suffering from both of these phenomena. You're a bit of an ego boost to her.





Then again, she might genuinely regret her behaviour and be trying to make up for it......
Reply:I put my ESP cap on and she says its cuz shes desperate for a date.
Reply:maybe she feels really bad about that date and wants to be nicer.
Reply:she may likee you again.


ask her out and see what she says
Reply:She feels guilty. Glad you didn't return her messages...Keep it up...
Reply:she wants you. obviously
Reply:It could be guilt.
Reply:She might want to be "Just Friends" with you, if you still like her, don't be friends, It'll just hurt.
Reply:Because she finally figured out what a good thing she was missing
Reply:You can block her if you don't want her messaging you, who's forcing you to read her messages?
Reply:Because it's funny.
Reply:Did she give any reason at all for dropping the ball like that? Have you let her know that you didn't appreciate being left with her roommates and you'd rather not go down that road again? If you haven't told her your feelings on her behavior she may think it was ok and that it wasn't a big deal to you, thus why she wants to go out again.
Reply:she may feel bad. Are you successful? She may realize what she missed out on. guve her a chance then rub it in her face.
Reply:she'd now interested, feels guilty thinks you're cute, wants to give t a shot, misses you or who knows girls have many different ideas.
Reply:I bet she's feeling really bad for standing you up or maybe she is trying to explain why she did... such as something happened. I would say give you a shot and talk to her and after a week if you don't like her anymore tell her off.
Reply:maybe she feels bad about dissing you, and now she wants to actually get to know you...





good luck!

tooth fairy