Saturday, April 17, 2010

I met someone through facebook that I have never met before. However, we have mutual friends.?

I was on facebook leaving my friend a comment, and I noticed this other guy that left a comment. I added him to be my friend, which is completely out of the ordinary for me. Ever since then we have talked everyday, either through email, texting, or talking on the phone. I have connected with him on a level I never thought possible. I am trying to think of every possible way this could go wrong. He is friends with a few people I went to high school with. I even googled his name, and his stories add up. He said he went to college for a golf scholarship, and a newspaper article with that very college came up with his name in it. I have no problems meeting men but, I feel weird meeting someone this way, At the sametime, I feel like I could really have something with him. He is the first person I talk to in the morning and the last at night. I am flying to Miami from Atlanta to see him... am I crazy? I just need some words of wisdom or encouragement.

I met someone through facebook that I have never met before. However, we have mutual friends.?
I actually thought you were going to ask a similar question that I've seen before which is "I met this person through facebook. I comment everyday. Do I have a chance?"





But you talk to him everyday through email, texting and even talking on the phone. I don't think that you are crazy. It's possible to meet someone on facebook. The fact that you communicated with him through pretty much every possible way that separated people can communicate, shows that you are ready to meet him.





Because you are going to meet him face to face for the first time, I think that you should just know that he may not be what you expect in terms of personality...but I guess that sort of takes care of that since you talked to him on the phone.
Reply:i think thats a lovely story! dosent seem crazy to me, sounds normal i guess, you go for it, and a great thing is that u both have mutual friends so thats a bonus! awwww thats put a nice smile on my face! xxxxx good luck!
Reply:You seem to really trust him so I say go for it.


Just make sure you meet in a public place and bring your mobile etc just so that if by chance it does go wrong you'll be pretty safe.





I hope it works out for you (:
Reply:girl go for it...





i met a guy on HI5 (close to the same thing as facebook) and now 1 year later, we are married... and so in love...





you never know what could happen...





you arent crazy... do it... it might be a good outcome...
Reply:sex him up.
Reply:Your just second guessing yourself. Things will go fine but just be careful when your with him online relationships can be bad. But good luck
Reply:Well you do what you want when you meet him, but make sure that everyone knows where you're going, has his name and contact number. Give them his address where you're going to be and call again as soon as you get there with the actual address.





If you've got a camera phone, just get him to pose with you for a "cute pic" of the 2 of you and then text it to a friend. This way everybody knows what he really looks like, who you're with, where you are, so god forbid if something DOES happen at least the cavalry will know where to find you.





just some words of advice. good luck, hope it works out.


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