Socially inept guy in facebook?

have a facebook profile which is set to private, what happen is that i dont have any friends at all and is embarrasing since most people in that that site have a gazillion of pics on their profiles. I just have a few pics of me with my family (LOL) like thanksgiving, christmas and first communions. i dont have a single picture of me in a party ,with friends ,etc. I want tou use facebook to meet girls but when they see my profile they are going to see how socially challenged i am. i have a myspace too whre is easier to look coool ( i started it with a few "fake " friends which profiles i set up myself and make them private). Doing that in facebook is much harder. Facebook unlike Myspace makes harder for lonelly people to look like social butterflies.


I dont want to use myspace anymore , i want to jump in the facebook vagon cause i want to meet more college educated girls, but this issue, even when it looks so stupid for some people, is keeping me from doing it.


Any advice?

Socially inept guy in facebook?
get out man, go to a bar, join a gym or a team somewhere... you cant expect to meet and make friends solely online. good luck
Reply:if you want friends on facebook....just either join a group or just randomly look for people in you state or city....then add them as a friend....trust me, most people will add you...
Reply:Join a network to be able to look through profiles of other people in that network that you may want to connect to, and join some groups that are specifically for making friends, like this one:


http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=22...


and this one:


http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=22...


another here:


http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=22...


and many more if you do a search...
Reply:HI...im socially inept too :) but im not allowed to have a face book...! dont feel bad...us socially inept people are too good for facebooks! talk to peole in real life....dont bother with facebook
Reply:its better and alot EASIER to meet people in real life. the best way to overcome something is to face it. tell yourself you are and act like you are a social butterfly and eventually, you will be. join a club or group that interests to meet more people, add them on facebook and they'll pobly introduce you to more people. if u meet someone ONLINE they might not EXIST....you have to remember that people make up stuff all the time, just like you made those fake profiles on myspace.





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