Monday, November 16, 2009

College or older, please.... what should I do?

I met this guy through a friend (we're all in college).... the thing is, he's a freshman and I'm 2 years older than him! I don't know how I fell for him, but it's something about his background, sense of humor, and brown eyes.... how sappy. Anyway, we ended up hanging out a few times, and every time we do, we end up shagging. He's a nice guy, but I don't think he knows I want something more than shag-buddydom. He seems into me, but who knows, it might all just be about sex. I know he had 2 really serious girlfriends before me, so... he's not a wh0re, but then again, who knows. there are 3 other girls who are always flirting with him on facebook (online community for college students). I'm jealous but I don't want to tell this guy directly (my feelings), because it might just make it awkward between us (especially since we're in the same organization and I wouldn't mind being good friends with him- he's great).... HOW do I let him know that I want something more, by HINTS?

College or older, please.... what should I do?
here you go just hang with him non stop wrap your arm amack the butt in public veiw that will tell you if hes there or not
Reply:ask him to go and do something specific with you that is a total date setting ie movie, dinner or anything that is just you and him outside of the shagging grounds. PS don't listen to james; smothering him will scare him away.
Reply:FORGET HINTS!!! Men do not read between lines. EVER!





Give him time. If you spend time with him when you can. Don't smother him though, that causes men to flee. Don't start talking about being in love with him if it's been less than 6 months. Give him enough space to keep looking around but make sure you are always what he sees when he looks forward. Get rid of the jealousy. He's a collage boy and that's usually a time to "get around". I'm not saying it's ok for him to cheat but it's not cheating if you haven't become exclusive with him. When the time does come, be direct.


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