Facebook help!?

I sent a facebook friend request to a former college friend and colleague last March and she has not accepted it. We took the same classes and worked in projects together. We worked well together and helped each other in our school work and personal lives. We both graduated in June and have since corresponded once. And she called me to help her with her with something.





I am going to call her soon (she moved to another city) and see how she is doing. Should I politely ask why she did not accept my request. Can I do it with any tact? I don't want to offend her at all.





I know that she uses fb a lot and has a lot of friends so it hurts that she has not accepted me.

Facebook help!?
Are you sure she uses FB a lot? Maybe she's been really preoccupied since you said she moved to another city. Maybe she hasn't really checked her acct a lot recently. It's a lot easier to say "it's only" FB, but if it really bugs ya, definitely ask her why. But bring it up nonchalantly. Don't make it as if it's all you've been thinking about because that's just weird. You could talk about how cool FB is with keeping up with people, maybe jokingly bring it up like "hey, I added you!" I dunno. But definitely keep it light. If you bring it up in a serious tone, that might just freak her out.
Reply:look i don't enderstand very well


you can reinvete her and tell her that is you
Reply:you could try readding her or sending her a messege and start a conversation like what has she been up to and that. x
Reply:if she hasn't accepted you, big deal. find a new friend, this one's obviously not much of a friend if you seem to be making all the effort.


it is possible she hasn't been on in a while, or couldn't remember who you were, or accidently clicked the wrong thing. but i would just forget about her.
Reply:Maybe she's just busy.