Monday, November 16, 2009

College folks (or a bit older) only....how do I hint in that I want something more?

I met this guy through a friend (we're all in college).... the thing is, he's a freshman and I'm 2 years older than him! I don't know how I fell for him, but it's something about his background, sense of humor, and brown eyes.... how sappy. Anyway, we ended up hanging out a few times, and every time we do, we end up shagging. He's a nice guy, but I don't think he knows I want something more than shag-buddydom. He seems into me, but who knows, it might all just be about sex. I know he had 2 really serious girlfriends before me, so... he's not a wh0re, but then again, who knows. there are 3 other girls who are always flirting with him on facebook (online community for college students). I'm jealous but I don't want to tell this guy directly (my feelings), because it might just make it awkward between us (especially since we're in the same organization and I wouldn't mind being good friends with him- he's great).... HOW do I let him know that I want something more, by HINTS?

College folks (or a bit older) only....how do I hint in that I want something more?
You can't hint; guys absolutely do not get hints. What we think is pretty obvious is still very vague in guyland, so it's not going to work and you'll only end up frustrated.





Step one is to stop sleeping with him. Next time you're together, don't do it. Leave early, find some excuse. But if it's just about the sex and you're not providing it, he'll move on without any nudging from you. If he asks you what's up, just say you're looking for something more than sex.





Tell him you're interested in dating him, but if he's not interested, you're okay with just being friends. Just stop having sex with him. But you have to lead the relationship in this sense because if you keep having sex with him, he won't see a reason to "date" you because he's already getting what he wants.
Reply:dont hint about it just do it
Reply:I agree. Don't beat around the bush. Just let the guy know. In my experiences, guys do not pick up on hints like us girls do. You've gotta be blunt and straight to the point. "I like ya Man." Why don't you try to ask him for a study session then take him out for supper once he gets there and after a little studying has been done. LOL!!!

dental implants

No comments:

Post a Comment