Facebook help?

I sent a facebook friend request to a former college friend and colleague last March and she has not accepted it. We took the same classes and worked in projects together. We worked well together and helped each other in our school work and personal lives. We both graduated in June and have since corresponded once. And she called me to help her with her with something.





I am going to call her soon (she moved to another city) and see how she is doing. Should I politely ask why she did not accept my request. Can I do it with any tact? I don't want to offend her at all.





I know that she uses fb a lot and has a lot of friends so it hurts that she has not accepted me.

Facebook help?
why push it with someone who declined a friendship request? how sad is that.





first of all make some real friends and peel yourself away from the computer and maybe this will cease to have any real meaning.





facebook is a good way to tell all of your friends at once, whats going on in your life. and to find out what theyre up to.





there are no strings attached. if people thought they would start to be stalked by everyone who they ever had a passing friendship with facebook would have folded up by now.





GROW UP and take NO for an answer
Reply:Send her one more facebook request. There's a chance it's been deleted accidentaly or something because I've done that before. If she still doesn't accept it then drop it. She obviously doesn't want you to see her profile, (whether pictures or something). Sorry bud, but if she doesn't accept this time, its on purpose. You could ask her why... but that might just make things awkward. I would just drop the whole thing if I were you after sending one more request.
Reply:Since you are good friends, just ask her politely why she did not accept your request


Simple enough
Reply:This is just me....but I go months without checking facebook. Maybe she's not even seen the invite? I would casually mention it, don't make a big deal over it. Such as, "What's up with facebook? You can't be my friend there?" Something like that, keep it light. It probably means absolutely nothing in terms of how she feels about you.