Is it ok if i add this girl from my college on facebook ?PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME !!!!?

she is in my chem lab and seats beside me...


i have had a huge crush on her and it's a long long story...we havent really talked...we've asked each other a few questions about chem...i have to open up a way to start a conversation...i found her on facebook but im not sure if it's ok...wouldnt that be weird or would she freak out ? (she has the choice of accepting my request or ignoring it) please please help me, i have to talk to her somehow but it's almost impossible to talk to her at college(long story)

Is it ok if i add this girl from my college on facebook ?PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME !!!!?
Sure, as long as you've had an exchange of a question or two. At least she'll know who you are.


Just add her, and write a little note like, "Hi. it's nice to see you on here too". Then in class, you might mention it casually too. CASUALLY, though. Dont make it sounds creepy/stalkery.
Reply:i would not be freaked out at all if i was her. i would say, go ahead.
Reply:OH MAN, what a serious step! It's like proposing. She'd freak out, might get a restraining order, maybe an assault case against you.








... Invite her, it's a social website, you're supposed to do that.
Reply:just add her. it wouldn't be that weird, you do know her. plus people do that all the time.
Reply:Just add her! I am sure she will add you!
Reply:Absolutely- add her! Facebook is exactly for that and seeing as you two are already friends, of course she'll accept!
Reply:Add her as a friend, I don't see why she wouldn't accept it! I quit facebook like 2 years ago so I don't remember the details but if she accepts you maybe then you can see her profile and know if she has a bf?


Once she accepts you as a friend I would ask her if she'd like to get some coffee after class and keep it casual, that way she doesn't feel uncomfortable about a date and still gets to talk and get to know you. Depending on how that goes you can take it from there....


Good Luck!