Guy From College Found Me On Facebook?

I go to this huge college, along with 5 or 6 of my friends. I was at home for vacation, and I got a facebook message from a guy that goes to college:





hey you are the most drop dead gorgeous girl ive ever seen. would you like to hang out sometime and get to know me???! plz...i really would love to get to know u





I was flattered, but I didn't think this guy was well.. more than a desperate loser, so I declined.. he keeped messaging me, and kept begging me to come see him. I talked to one of my friends about it, and he was bothering her recently too (following her around campus, begging her to go out with him).





anyways, he won't leave me alone.. I told him we could be friends, and thats about it.. but he keeps basically ignoring anything I have to say... and he keeps insisting he's not a player and I should trust him and theres no reason why i shouldn't trust him.





He keeps trying to get me to go to dinner with him off campus, but I don't trust him. He keeps begging and begging and declaring his love for me, and he keeps calling me a bunch of cutsie pet names.





He's an exchange student from a foreign country and he's being very awkward.. what should I do?

Guy From College Found Me On Facebook?
Well, sounds wierd. NEVER go off campus with him. Even after(if) you get to know him better. I would say that if you have a guy friend that's not currently going out with anyone, ask him to hang out with you a little more in hopes that this other guy will leave you alone. It's possible that it's a cultural thing to try to be overly friendly with people but it's highly unlikely that that is his reason. I'd assume he has social problems and is looking for acceptance from anyone. Maybe there has a been a major trauma (sp?) in his life and this is his way of dealing with it. If you have school counselors, I'd ask one of them to talk with him about it. This is definitely a form of stalking so watch your back and be careful!
Reply:Go out with him in a group, don't go alone he sounds a little creepy but in order for him to stop bugging you mabey you should go with him only bring some of your other friends and probably a guy or two wouldn't hurt either.
Reply:just tell him you gay, or shoot with a little .25 cal hand gun won't hurt to much sure will hurt a hell of a lot, or get a freind a big guy and pretend your dating pick a guy you like to go along with it and you never know
Reply:Well, I don't think you should just declare some guy you don't even know a "loser." That aside, just be straight-forward and tell him to buzz off. Telling some guys that you're "willing to be friends" will only lead them on with the hope of a relationship developing.
Reply:sounds like a stalker to me. watch yourself.

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